Former Premier League footballer Stephen Darby has said he counts himself lucky to still be alive five years after his Motor Neurone Disease diagnosis.
Posting on the Instagram page of his Darby Rimmer MND Foundation, which raises money for research into the disease, the 34-year-old said that while 'daily tasks are tougher', he considers himself fortunate to still be here.
The ex Liverpool and Bradford City striker was first diagnosed on September 12th 2018 at the age of 29 - just three months after his wedding to former England Lioness captain Steph Houghton.
He told followers in a post Tuesday, exactly five years after he received the news: '80%-90% of people who are diagnosed with MND die within 5 years. A third of people who are diagnosed die within a year, and half of people diagnosed die within two years. I count myself one of the lucky ones.'
He added: 'Daily tasks are tougher, some tasks require help and some require more effort but I feel that effort is a privilege. It’s a privilege because although it’s harder it means I’m still able to do it.'
His wife, 35, who plays at right back for Manchester City shared his post, saying: 'Proudest wife ever! We're winning the fight! Love you'.
Defender Darby was playing at Bolton Wanderers, while studying for his football coaching badges, when he was given the diagnosis at a Sheffield hospital in 2018.
The Darby Rimmer Foundation was founded soon after by the footballer and Chris Rimmer, a former soldier and Liverpool fan who was diagnosed with the disease in 2015, and died in 2022. The charity has raised more than £1.3million to date.
Darby's wife Steph Houghton, who once captained England's Lionesses and plays for Manchester City, penned a column for the Daily Mail throughout the World Cup, in exchange for a donation to the Darby Rimmer Foundation.
She's spoken in the past about her guilt at leaving her husband to play. In March, Houghton was on the bench for Manchester City in an FA Cup tie at Aston Villa.
Houghton told the Mail that her husband had told her he would be fine but suffered a fall. At full time, Steph switched her phone on. It rang almost instantly. ‘Stephen has had a fall — he’s in the hospital.'
‘I was like, “Right, how do I get to there?”’ Houghton explained. ‘You feel so guilty because you’re not there. You’re on a bench in Birmingham and you shouldn’t be.’
Stephen, who had suffered a nasty cut to the back of his head, was patched up. Fortunately, there was no serious damage.
A year after his diagnosis, Darby said the moment he was told was his 'worst nightmare'.
Darby said: 'The toughest part was thinking about what it's doing to my wife, mum, dad, brother and friends. I couldn't believe it, really. You never think you will be in that position. Even now sometimes I look back and it doesn't seem real.'
Another sportsman, Rugby League star Rob Burrow has alsoput MND in the spotlight with own fight over the last four years.
The former player, 40, who has become a campaigner for awareness of the disease after his diagnosis in late 2019, appeared in an ITV documentary, Rob Burrow: Living with MND, which was nominated for a National Television Award (NTA) this month.
The ITV documentary, which aired in June, showed heartbreaking images of Burrow being carried around his house and fed by wife Lindsey.
The Leeds Rhinos legend, from West Yorkshire, who shares two daughters Maya, Macy and son Jackson with wife Lindsay, told This Morning last week that he'll keep fighting the disease.
During his appearance, Rob explained: 'I refuse to give in. I will fight and fight to my very last breath, I use positivity to get me through. Sometimes, even when things are hard, I like to crack a joke and make everyone laugh.'
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Darby,you will never work alone
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God is there for us,keep praying
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God bless all these people who have MND - give them the opportunity & strength to live well .
BeckMathew
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God bless Darby.. 😍
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I love your wife
bunbliz
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You have a strong woman by your side the only reason you survive. Keep fighting the lord is your strength
God all through
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You have a strong woman by your side the only reason you survive. Keep fighting the lord is your strength
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congrats, you are stronger than ever.
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God bless all involved.