GRAEME SOUNESS: Harry Maguire has become a lightning rod for Man United's problems and failings

I certainly knew what getting stick looked and sounded like when I was player. I was part of a very successful team but the way I played — and the perception that I had been naughty on the pitch at times — got me flak.

When people are part of a gang or a crowd, they’re more likely to say something than they would if they were standing right in front of you, looking you in the eye. That’s never changed.

I knew nothing like the level of abuse Harry Maguire gets, though, and it astonishes me, even though it seems to be part of the world we now live in. Eric Dier was talking last week about the stick his own family get at grounds. This is a level of hate I didn’t know as a player.

Some of it is dished out through social media, which is a world to be avoided at all costs for players. Maguire will go on there to apologise for a Manchester United performance and then get hammered for doing so. Why on earth do players do this? Because they can get a couple of million followers and they can monetise that? They all earn quite enough money not to need this.

I’ll bet you that if you asked 200 Premier League players, do they want to be on Instagram, Twitter or whatever else they go on, 90 per cent of them would say, ‘I don’t want to be on it but my agent says it’s good thing’. And why is the agent so keen? Money, of course. You don’t need to put yourself out there to be ridiculed just to line an agent’s pocket

Maguire is at particular risk of the kind of pile-on we’re seeing because a failing Manchester United made him the most expensive central defender in the world and then made him their captain. So he becomes a lightning rod for all United’s ills. All the club’s failings are piled at his door. Ridiculous. I can’t remember a game United lost because of Harry Maguire alone.

He has been guilty of making mistakes. But if you make a mistake in that position, it generally leads to an effort on your goal. You’re relying on having good central midfielders in front of you, putting the ball under pressure, trying to protect you at all times, making sure that if a ball is played through into your area, it’s of no great quality. United’s players in those central midfield positions haven’t been good enough.

I don’t think Maguire has ever been part of a reliable and consistent United back four. Raphael Varane has shown more consistency this year, but you’d never say Eric Bailly or Victor Lindelof would have another big club wanting to sign them.

It’s the level of abuse which is bewildering, though. I witness it at games and it’s water off a duck’s back to me now. I’m of a certain age and a certain character where nothing really bothers me.

But if you’re a public figure today, you are apparently there to be ridiculed and that seems to be accepted. That’s the 21st century. That’s 2022.

I particularly despise the keyboard warriors we have now. Faceless pygmies who will write abuse about someone, knowing that they will never be confronted. Knowing no one will ever find out who they are and who is spouting all this vile hate.

I’ve met Maguire once and he seemed a thoroughly decent young man with a very good attitude. It was only a five-minute exchange at the premiere of a Bryan Robson film in Manchester last November but I wanted him to do well because he seems a very good type.

It has been suggested this week he might speak to a psychologist. Great, if that helps, though I’ve never been down that road. The psychology of the guys I worked with at Liverpool was pretty straightforward.

When I became a manager, I wasn’t terribly sympathetic to players’ needs and on reflection that was wrong. As a manager, I think I was too tough on players. It was the way I saw Bob Paisley, Ronnie Moran and Joe Fagan operate and it influenced my management style hugely. I’d had success being treated like that and watched contemporaries being treated like that. We’d all responded to it.

I was too tough on certain people. Ultimately it’s why I decided 16 years ago that management wasn’t for me.

It’s a different world for Maguire, though it won’t be easy from here. He will need to be really mentally tough. He’s out of the United team and won’t be a part of things at City tomorrow.

But he does have the qualities to be a top player and a top defender and they will come back. My advice to him would be: keep your head down. Believe in the qualities you have. Listen to those who really matter at United. And shut out the haters.

I thought Yosser Hughes was going to hit me!

It’s 40 years this month since I appeared in a cameo role in Alan Bleasdale’s Boys from the Blackstuff. When Alan said he’d written Sammy Lee and me into an episode and would I be interested, I thought it would be a laugh. They filmed it at a Toxteth church that had been converted into a pub and we showed up at 9am for a half-hour chat with the director and Bernard Hill, the legendary Yosser Hughes in the series, who we appeared with.

Then the director said: ‘Let’s have a go’, so we took up our positions. And that’s when Bernard Hill became a different human being. Suddenly, he wasn’t Bernard Hill any more. He was immediately into character and right in my face, staring at me like a maniac in a way that made me seriously think he was going to punch my lights out.

I remember Sammy, who was sitting the other side of him, giving me a look that said, ‘He’s lost it.’

We were soon finished and the brilliant Bernard Hill reverted to being himself again. We didn’t know at the time that it would become a cult series and a tragi-comic classic. But it was definitely one of my scarier moments at Liverpool.

My part in the first fly-on-the-wall

The talk about a new Netflix fly-on-the-wall Premier League series took me back to my early years at Tottenham and the club being the subject of the first project of that kind, when the writer Hunter Davies spent a season around the players for his book, The Glory Game.

Hunter arrived with a standing as a serious writer, having written the authorised biography of The Beatles four years earlier, and to begin with everyone was very helpful.

I was a young player, on the outside looking in. But the senior players started to realise that they could be vulnerable and were less enthusiastic about the idea as the season went on.

Eddie Baily, manager Bill Nicholson’s assistant, tended to use colourful language and they thought that could be portrayed negatively.

I believe it was a fabulous book and ahead of its time, if not 100 per cent accurate.

Hunter described me driving a Ford Anglia, when my first car was a sky-blue Fiat 125. I never had an Anglia and wasn’t an Anglia man. But the reticence some players felt shows the difficulty of producing something that captures a club as it really is.