One of the Premier League's most popular referees has revealed he considered quitting the game after being subject to abuse because of his job.
After the 2023 Europa League final, Anthony Taylor found himself the target of fans and a manager after taking charge of the game between Sevilla and Roma, which saw the Spanish side win on penalties - and Jose Mourinho take exception to that.
Taylor and his family were harassed and abused by a baying mob of Roma supporters at Budapest airport in the wake of his performance that saw Roma manager Jose Mourinho confront him in the car park at the Puskas Arena long after the final whistle and labelled the official a 'f***ing disgrace' for his 'bull****' decisions.
With Roma's fans as riled up about Taylor as their manager, the English official was cornered by more than a hundred supporters in Budapest airport as he and his family tried to take solace in a back room away from the mob.
Security staff struggled to keep a barrier between the referee, his family and Roma fans who swore and threw items, including a chair, in chaotic scenes.
Taylor, 46, is still a regular official in the English top flight and Europe, and has opened up on how some certain incidents have led to him nearly throwing in the towel all together.
'That's for sure the worst situation I've dealt with in terms of abuse,' he told BBC Sport of the Europa League final. 'Not only because I was travelling with family members at the time, but it also highlights the impact of people's behaviour on others - and so yeah, there's always scrutiny around big, high-profile matches.
'But even in a match like that where there were actually no major mistakes in the game... we're trying to shift focus, for somebody to blame, and for me, that's a great source of disappointment, frustration, anger.
'There's certainly been moments - and I won't be alone in this - there's certainly been moments where you're thinking, "is it is it worth it?" And certainly moments where you're thinking, "what's being said is completely unfair".
'We have this archaic psychological tactic of "let's bombard the ref or bombard the fourth official with the hope of getting a decision out of it".
'Part of my mind is actually, well, the behaviour directed towards you a lot of the time is actually not real. It's people playing games. And you kind of filter that, almost in a comical way, because they're behaving like children a lot of the time.'
Taylor was accused by Mourinho of 'seeming Spanish' for the number of yellow cards he dished out, and the veteran coach angrily confronted the referee after the match.
Deep in the bowels of the ground, Mourinho fumed at Taylor in several languages.
'F***ing disgrace, man, it's a f***ing disgrace,' Mourinho raged, before switching to swear at the official in Italian. 'F*** off,' he continued.
He then approached the referee's mini-bus and sniped, 'congratulations, you f***ing disgrace', before trudging off to the team bus.
Taylor was also ambushed by fans at the airport as he travelled home with his family.
'It makes you it makes you reflect back on whether you made a mistake travelling with your family in the first place,' Taylor said. 'But considering your family as match officials our families don't really travel with us to matches, they only tend to come to the big final matches like that one in Budapest.
'And for what should have been a night of them simply travelling home and having enjoyed the final the night before then, it's really disappointing to see.
'The footballing culture in general has a very archaic, psychological tactic that we need to win this game at all costs. In what realm is an adult shouting verbal abuse to a referee or a young player who is under 18 years of age acceptable?
'In football it is, because every single weekend you can go to any local park across the UK and you can see a parent on the sideline verbally abusing a young referee.
'Yes, football's a results-driven business, but sometimes across the game, there's almost a "win at all cost" mentality, and "let's not worry about the consequence outside of that".
'If we truly want to make it a better environment for everybody, and remember what happens at the elite level cascades all the way down particularly to grassroots football, the levels of abuse and criticism really need to be challenged in that environment to make sure that it's an enjoyable game for absolutely everybody.'
Outlier
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It’s not too late, QUIT NOW, and forever hold your cheats.
KumahEmmanuel011
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this guy is a cheat
Yepcdkmnos
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Taylor you're really a disgrace, don't even be talk Stupid decisions always even the game for Chelsea vs Liverpool
KapeloUnited
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I don't know why, but English referee always cause this calamity outside the premier league referring. In my opinion p, English referees believe epl is better than other league and so they over extend their proudness and start causing major errors. Italian and Spanish referees are always cool, and humble but English behave like football is their nature.
puzaikostu
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no one saying good for you it's means you ar bad person
cikacdlnuy
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he sucks , he should be in jail for fraud
Bowklnpsy
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quit we celebrate
Fazbckntu
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Every loser has someone or blame for their failures, Refs are also human and sometimes they make mistakes but abusing them along side family is bad ...
It shall not be well with you for saying such, why would a ref that has var to his support not commit such horrible blunders ( times without numbers) go check his records with josé mohrino , he does that to that man times without number and you are here defending evil
Zutacdkmr
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incompetent ref.. to quit could've been the best choice.
Andon
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Definitely should have left!!!
Psbsteveo
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Every loser has someone or blame for their failures, Refs are also human and sometimes they make mistakes but abusing them along side family is bad ...
People think shit easy always blame people for losing special Real , in life there are winners and losers if you loose tike the L in move on just like Barca and city they won’t blame ref for losing.
weumnrtuyz
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WHAT MOU HAS TO DO IS TO FORGIVE YOU. B'CAUSE YOU SPOILED HIS CAREER, HARMED ROMA FC IN HIS BACKYARD. WHAT ACOURAGE MR TYLER
Kecadkptuy
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Let him quit happy cause he messed up lots a time!
weumnrtuyz
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MOURINHO WAS RIGHT. I SAW THE MATCH ALSO MY FEELING WAS CLEAR AND IS CLEAR: YOU HAD VERY BAD MATCH THATS FOR SURE, BUT I DONT KNOW IT WAS INTENTIONAL OR NOT. BUT AT THE END YOUR HARMED ROMAS PARTY IN ROMAS OLIMPIC STADIUM. SO DONT CRY, THANK GOD FOR COMING OUT WHIT YOUR LIFE.
howdmoprtu
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Trash of a ref
Beminru
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Mourinho should be fined and suspended for his actions! He’s an asshole and always has been one!
AFervpkM5251
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Every loser has someone or blame for their failures, Refs are also human and sometimes they make mistakes but abusing them along side family is bad ...
You need to check yourself dude
Israel”11”
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I lost respect for him the day he watched Cucu being pulled down in the build up and Tottenham score but he refused to go to the VAR. He’s full of shit for real.
FR 😅😅
Herdural
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We can’t wait for him to go, he is long overdue
lupainruy
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Taylor is a rubbish card hungry ref, dishing out cards like his salary is tied to it. Trash
keubortz
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Said a lot but Ended up saying bunch of nonsense..Didn't even acknowledge the real reason he was attacked but just trying to play victim.
mabdikmstz
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very bad ref ever
dubeiknopy
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him have do more harm than good in the body of football very bad rf
wisely50
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mistake for how many times him knows what him doing very bad rf English rf are corrupt
if you think the job is easy you should be doing it 😉
dubeiknopy
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Every loser has someone or blame for their failures, Refs are also human and sometimes they make mistakes but abusing them along side family is bad ...
mistake for how many times him knows what him doing very bad rf English rf are corrupt
setdpstuy
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incompetent ref. because of your incompetency u put yourself and your family in danger. being a ref is not for u anthony taylor. should have quit
wisely50
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Every loser has someone or blame for their failures, Refs are also human and sometimes they make mistakes but abusing them along side family is bad ...
CollinsEfosaEhioro
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I will keep saying it,,this taylor referee in deed is a shit..he sold that match to sevilla costing roma fan and mou deep cut of pain and the only chance of them qualifying for the CL..Taylor indeed u are shit
Wuhadeiktz
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wonderful news for chelsea's fans
AFerDGdp0935
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I lost respect for him the day he watched Cucu being pulled down in the build up and Tottenham score but he refused to go to the VAR. He’s full of shit for real.
hazcdipsyz
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honestly threatening a match official is not a good habit of a fan but that match was a disgrace to footballing system