If Chelsea's beleaguered players can muster the same sort of honesty in their performances as manager Graham Potter showed on Wednesday then they will be just fine.
The Blues boss can often appear reserved and restrained, but not on Wednesday as he delivered a refreshingly forthright assessment of the position he finds himself in - and how Chelsea's run of just one victory in 10 domestic outings has impacted his family life.
The club's woeful stretch has left many questioning whether Potter is the right man for the job - a role the 47-year-old described as the 'hardest in football'.
Social media is awash with criticism from Chelsea fans. And worryingly, even the match-going supporters appear to be turning. The name of Potter's predecessor Thomas Tuchel was chanted during the 4-0 FA Cup defeat at Manchester City.
Much of that is unavoidable. But as Potter pointed out on Wednesday we've entered a different chapter of the club's history.
'Change is a challenge in any organisation,' explained Potter before Thursday night's trip to Fulham. 'We have to deal with the new and we have to build things up again because things have changed, things have gone and left.
'That's part of the challenge to come and I understood that things would be difficult from a leadership perspective. It is a challenge, stimulating and ridiculously hard.
'It is probably the hardest job in football because of that leadership change and the expectation - because, rightly, where people see Chelsea.
'I have the utmost respect for Thomas Tuchel and what he achieved here in terms of winning the Champions League, so I can understand that (the chanting).
'What the previous ownership has done before is fantastic. But this is a new era, a new chapter and, we're going through some pain and it's difficult at the moment. Obviously, I understand their frustration, I appreciate their support because there is support there but I also understand there is a bit of pain we have to go through as well.'
It's clear the criticism has taken its toll on Potter, no matter how he hard he tries to hide it. Of course, the losses arrive as the heftiest blows. There have been a few recently - too many for a club of Chelsea's stature.
Potter is suffering. 'After a game I am not a very pleasant person, in terms of it hurting me,' he said.
'When you lose, or don't get the results, it is painful. It affects your family. As much as you try to have balance and perspective, I am a human as well and it is a struggle.
'My family know there are pluses and minuses to the job. And ultimately, I am not after pity here. I am grateful and privileged to be here. I mean, wow, what else could you be doing with your life? Worse.
'It is pain, but then life can be more painful. Life can really kick you and you have to recover from it, deal with it. At the same time, you have to take responsibility. What am I going to do? Be the Chelsea manager and not expect pressure, trouble, challenge, stress? It would be strange of me to do that.
'You have to take responsibility. You have to lead the group and lead the team.'
There was a time when some of the vitriol being fired in his direction would have weighed heavier on Potter.
'I used to speak about this with my wife because she would say, 'It doesn't do you any good looking at that (social media)',' he revealed. 'It doesn't do you any good reading comments because you don't know where it's come from and there's a lot of angry people in the world.'
'My ex-chairman said, "There's no point arguing with stupid people because they're stupid". I'm not saying anybody criticising me is stupid at all but you get my point. It's hard to take anything from it.
'But it's hard. Human beings want to be liked. In the end, it (looking at social media) doesn't do you any good and it's not great for your mental health, and you just have to understand that it's out there. You don't listen to the majority of it because you'd be crazy if you did.'
Meanwhile, the FA have told clubs they could be charged if their fans sing the 'Chelsea rent boy' chant. The Crown Prosecution Service is looking into the reported use of the term by Nottingham Forest fans during their New Year's Day match against Chelsea at the City Ground.
Aghazzy
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Gerrout
as e dey pain dem, e dey sweet us 🤪
Grinfinz
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He can’t kill himself.. there are a lot of rebuilt here
Grinfinz
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Is said it all
wukblmn
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Those English pundits think their coaches are good enough to coach d top teams cos they reside in England,go and ask TT about his family
wuyclmnpz
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wellcome back to Brighton
Uzorma100
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His family? shouldn't he resign and leave so his family can have peace! is Potter a selfish man
I tire oo atlist resign and let peace rein in your family
DeoDarius
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Check your google
with what time I have? who ever he tell people he is, tell him to keep himself busy with spiritual matters not nonsense entertainment which have nothing to do with his work😅
Akindele_dejavu
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As for me he needs to bench bunch of players in that team
Akindele_dejavu
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This is nemesis on Chelsea FC and I'm loving it 😁 they shouldn't have sacked Tuchel but I'm glad they did, I'm loving this Chelsea downfall
Gerrout
Aghazzy
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This is nemesis on Chelsea FC and I'm loving it 😁 they shouldn't have sacked Tuchel but I'm glad they did, I'm loving this Chelsea downfall
jeplmorstu
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His family? shouldn't he resign and leave so his family can have peace! is Potter a selfish man
Yeubeklnpz
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stupid coach, you haven't seen anything yet
zinacnpuyz
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Simple then quit we are tired of you.
AbrahamBJr
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just Sack that good for nothing man already
ClemJay
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I feel sorry for him. Chelsea is a very big club whose negative results on the pitch affects everyone involved from top management down to the fans
Kuzbdlnps
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No erection for Mr Potter at home
riycdkmors
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It's obvious the job is too big for you Potter, just quit to save yourself and family some stress
solomontochi2
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Only hurting you. Untill we start to hit you with some broken bottles on the way, that is when you will understand how we the fans feel.
Gresham
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You wouldn't have accepted that job, you knew you were not at Tuchel's level but still went ahead to accept the job after he was brutally sacked
Gresham
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I love Chelsea. We shall rise again. It's normal in football. Even if we don't meet our expectations this season, we shall meet it next.
lol
jetbciknrz
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leave the position n all will be well with ur family
Andy_Mac
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Potter may be hurt by reading lots of negative comments aimed at him, but he should also realise that there are lots of Chelsea fans who still back him, and believe he can turn it around. There's not a single person in the football world who hasn't received hate from any sections of football supporters. If he's afforded time, he has every chance of turning it around and bringing Chelsea back to the very top. Let's hope Boehly does the right thing and actually backs him. Otherwise Boehly would be the most clueless football owner looking at the way he's been operating this whole season.
pabbdosty
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Weeabopuy
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put more efforts don't just talk
Nhlapo
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Just Resign
weydemostz
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no be you nd ur family decided to leave Brighton
Tilapia_1122
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who's primate?
Check your google
Faocekmn
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it will soon affect your brain 🧠🧠
DeoDarius
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Chelsea Fans should keep praying
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who's primate?
Tilapia_1122
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Chelsea Fans should keep praying
Bouabioruy
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Potter is okay.. Chelsea has never been consistent even with the previous owners.. Senior players left last summer, senior players are injured now, our transfer dept has been poor with lukaku, aubameyang and the rest. The remaining players are light weights. But I can see the kids in the near future excelling. Give Potter some time. This phase will pass. The new kids are ballers and their confidence is palpable..
tohcelnu
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potter is just your mediocre tactics is hurting Chelsea I love that it will help you stay behind us the GUNS
Secbiouy
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I love Chelsea. We shall rise again. It's normal in football. Even if we don't meet our expectations this season, we shall meet it next.
Lidclrtuyz
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Should resign then
kapbelrs
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Despite all the noise, I'm seeing a real man here who will surely turn the table around and bring back glory in Stamford Bridge. every success story has a rough beginning. Your wife is right! 'The world is full of angry people' but there are also many who believed that, it takes patience, perseverance and hard work to achieve success. True Blues will support you Graham! We will come out of this together! We are Chelsea!
MaxwellKyeremeh
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You haven't nothing yet
Hemantgadar
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excuses, excuses excuses that's what are being good money for