From a cold shoulder and a turned back to a warm hug and a few sweet nothings in the ear. A strange few days indeed in the on-off romance of Jose Mourinho and Marcus Rashford.
And yet it has gone on like this for more than a few days and will go on for far more.
Their relationship seems destined to always be a little odd, much like that of Mourinho and Luke Shaw, an undulating tale of provocation and response that is simultaneously horrible to watch and yet quite often very understandable.
You might want to blame Mourinho, to question the extreme and perverse nature of his man management, but still find yourself agreeing, if not with the whole charade of Tuesday, when he turned around in belittling wonderment at a Rashford miss, but certainly on the sentiment behind it.
And that is because, in essence, Rashford is immensely frustrating, and if it is frustrating for you, just imagine how it must be for the man whose job partially depends on him.
This was one of those games that bundled the whole narrative and saga into one performance. The good, the bad, the carelessness and the brilliance, taking in one goal for Southampton and two for Manchester United, before he left the field in the second half and was given the warmest of hugs by his manager.
In truth he deserved it. His two assists were brilliant, but to access those moments, first we had to see the other side.
He had fingerprints on Southampton’s second goal, for example. Not so much for the foul on Mario Lemina from which Cedric nailed the free-kick but more in the act that immediately preceded it, whereby his loose touch necessitated the challenge.
A cleaner touch means no decision for Kevin Friend to make and you sense that Mourinho will feel the same way.
That being said, he isn’t there predominantly for his defensive contributions. The greater sin still seems to be the erratic nature of his finishing and with it is the persistent sense that you cannot rely on him to bury the one good chance that might come his way at an important moment.
This game didn’t offer up that kind of killer opportunity, and yet it did involve one first-half shot from a nice central spot that went so far over the bar that Southampton fans laughed en masse.
Eyes quickly turned to Mourinho but he was more discreet with his feelings this time, likewise when a sloppy attempt at a one-two on the edge of Southampton’s area turned a United attack into something more frantic at the other end.
By that stage, with more than half an hour played, Rashford’s game was turning into a vindication of Mourinho’s gripes. Like his team-mates, he had been weak.
But from that mess came the resurrection and key in it all was Rashford. His level rose and from it came two assists that deserve enormous credit.
In the first instance, 33 minutes in, the assisting pass to Romelu Lukaku followed a body-to-body collision with Maya Yoshida. Giving away eight kilos and around 10cm in height, that shouldn’t be a contest. But Rashford emerged with the ball from which United had their lifeline.
Now reconsider some words from Mourinho eight days earlier that were used as a challenge to his younger players.
‘We’re talking about Luke Shaw, Martial, Lingard, Rashford – young, big potential, but at the end of the day it results in the word I cannot say but you use it a lot here… character, personality, they lack a little.’
Maybe the manager deserves credit – maybe the strategy of coercion worked. Or maybe he was just wrong about the willpower of a player who was having a bad night here and was still able to extract game-changing contributions from himself.
That is a footballing definition of personality.
The second assist was no less impressive, but more for a demonstration of the talents are hard to dispute. The sheer pace and touch needed to beat two men and outrun a third was quite something and the delivery from the byline to Ander Herrera at the near post wasn’t too shabby either.
Granted, two assists doesn’t make a mockery of his manager. But it is equally obvious that those who persist in criticising the player are overlooking the skills in his arsenal.
With any luck a day will come soon when they consistently outweigh the other stuff.
Michaelworks
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man u just playing like toddlers come on, that march was frustrating. I criticize mourinho alot but, he can't be blamed for players missing chances that should put them in front of their opponents. mourinho can be blamed if the chances could not be created but can't be blamed if they're missed that way. truth be told, Lukaku is doing nothing in man u. I can say I play better than him seriously. watching man u play is heartbreaking.
jeaabesyz
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Mou man management approach is the problem with Mou.He should leave before it is too late. Giggs and Carrick shoul take over.
I don't like it
jeaabesyz
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Mourinho made enough money for Man U.
jeaabesyz
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Why did Mourinho have problems with Paul Pogba? It was Pogba that became jealous of Sanchez's salary. He forgot that his salary was increased in Man U and other players played well to win titles that year. No manager can go through football career without trials. Pep first year in Man City How many titles he won? Liverpool has won how many titles since 4, years? Totherham has won how many titles since 4 years? Mourinho made Pogba. Pogba is his problem. In Chelsea Mourinho made Hazard. Hazard became Mourinho's problem. It is a price Mourinho pays. I if he survives this time in Man U the players will make impact. The has problems from the board to players all is to make way for Mourinho to be sacked. The club sack Mourinho makes him richer. He gets a new contract with money and add more record. Please before you condemn great personality put yourself in their shoes. Mourinho is the greatest coach for now. A coach that breaks spells on teams with less effort. Teams and record: 1. Porto champion league. 2. Chelsea Premier league after 50 years. 3. Inter Champion league. 4. Man U Europa after 19 years. Maybe french team may contact him for their champion league desires. A man with this record you think he should be afraid of any person? The truth is that Mourinho love Man U. He wants to stay with this club as Sir Alex did. I wish him all the best. please look at Mourinho's records very well. He is not a failure. I love him because I love success. Stay connected. Thank you all.
yonadksyz
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Mou man management approach is the problem with Mou.He should leave before it is too late. Giggs and Carrick shoul take over.
yonadksyz
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The problem with man utd is Mou man management with players. he should change. Things got bad since he began to have problem with pogba
TempleK
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is time for sack the couch
lol the couch indeed and not the coach lol.
gilewuluvlkbanna
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rashford gives tow assists and the whole English media is praising and hailing him. he spoils a sitter and a couple more glorious chances and his coach reacts in shock and frustration then the English media keep mute on the former but criticize the later for his reaction.... shame to the English media
These English media are very biased. Once its English it must be good. They overrate English players. No wonder why they have a lot of catching up to do.
Yankomillion
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rashford gives tow assists and the whole English media is praising and hailing him. he spoils a sitter and a couple more glorious chances and his coach reacts in shock and frustration then the English media keep mute on the former but criticize the later for his reaction.... shame to the English media
tow assists? chaii! spelling oohh
Ceniklry
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It's an embarrassing display from Pogba ,lost the ball 8 times in critical areas plus a yellow card it out of the balance of the team ,Man U need a Tony Kross kind of player ,Pogba it's obvious he can't lead the pack,needs a leader in front of him thumps up to Rushford,Lukaku got a goal but his touch,control and passing is poor needs to pick himself and the board has to Scout for a second clinical striker.
Second striker means rashford will quit the club
Nzargi
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rashford gives tow assists and the whole English media is praising and hailing him. he spoils a sitter and a couple more glorious chances and his coach reacts in shock and frustration then the English media keep mute on the former but criticize the later for his reaction.... shame to the English media
Chakse
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Don’t say anything Don’t say anything
Zacbcku
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people can only criticise the coach. rashford had a good game with lot of runs and two assists but his runs were most of the time ignored by pogba deciding to keep it in his feet then waste it. he was tired and deserved to be substituted to bring martial for the composure that rashford still lacks. our main problem was poor pogba not José
dimcnopy
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poor tactics from coach how can sub de man playing de game n leave pogba n folly lukaku on de pitch ?
zetbdnoz
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why mourinho had to take out Mata always
Isaac Kabaso Zulu
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Will rise again..... #GGMU
yukabelnrt
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mourinho is killing talented players
Ciolmruyz
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Will are going to raise at least top 4
99ghatty
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if Rashford could maintain pressure and calm in a match he will be great
Bratshuks22
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It's an embarrassing display from Pogba ,lost the ball 8 times in critical areas plus a yellow card it out of the balance of the team ,Man U need a Tony Kross kind of player ,Pogba it's obvious he can't lead the pack,needs a leader in front of him thumps up to Rushford,Lukaku got a goal but his touch,control and passing is poor needs to pick himself and the board has to Scout for a second clinical striker.
zealline
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He should go
Koeabcetz
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Nothing Mourinho can add on United nw. He shd just leave the club n go. Let another coach come in.
hioaops
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the problem of united is from the scouting network and the coach tactics which is not well accepted by fans and player
ceyadikotz
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i believe we will rise again ..GGMU
ditacmpyz
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Mourinho out oh.........! we are tired of your nonsense go........!
voddrt
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Mo must & he must pls take all his expensive signings that do absolutely nothing tired of this lazy team
Landemprtu
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English medium do exaggerate everything even sports technical issues
Nesaiknruy_Legend
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massa chelsea man please think about your Europa team,you cant leave your cheap team and talk about the Great Manchester United.United will not sit on 4th position with good form.we will bounce back and what ever happens in our team does not matter you the chelsea fans or any other team supporter.weak Bayern Munich,weak Real Madrid and weak Arsenal you will come and meet us at old Trafford on wednesday.only the weak teams talk about the Great United
You're only comeback is look at your own team. Last I checked I've looked and we've only lost one game in the whole season respectively. Can't say the same for you under Mou. Your teams a laughing stock cos fans like you are happy to accept the mediocrity that is Man United right now. Do you have no shame and sense of pride as a fan. Everton are a better team than you right now.......
Ruadnptuz
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sack mo
Rosdiknt
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am tired of dra
Uche2013
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Mourinho ego is too much, I can't call it principles. why not play bailly in defense, he is fit and have trained all week instead he opt to play unexperienced midfielder in a defense. what a shame!
Wiubdktu
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I don't even think Zidane can solve this. There's a lack of resolve in the whole hierarchy of United from those at the top to players and managers... Structural change is needed at united. Woodward has been doing fine but he ends up taking all the blame and same goes with Mou who has players who wont step up to the mark.... we all know younger players in that United team are not Mou personal signings. He likes old players like Matic and Fellaini. The United structure in general is to blame, not specific targets. Never mattered who was manager the outcome would be the same...
massa chelsea man please think about your Europa team,you cant leave your cheap team and talk about the Great Manchester United.United will not sit on 4th position with good form.we will bounce back and what ever happens in our team does not matter you the chelsea fans or any other team supporter.weak Bayern Munich,weak Real Madrid and weak Arsenal you will come and meet us at old Trafford on wednesday.only the weak teams talk about the Great United
Hiwbnptz
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why keeping mourinho let him go pls some of as we are dying here bcoz of him.
mecadkmruz
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is time for sack the couch
Bezdrz
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still lazy assuming players. Lukaku should have been substituted earlier. This team is going nowhere.
Nesaiknruy_Legend
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fight for yours to be sacked,we the United fans like jose
Maybe about 3% of your fanbase actually likes Jose lol. How can you like someone that plays the same players, same structure and plays to draw or marginally win games lol. I respect him for all the things he's done in the past but his time is finished, he can't adapt with the times and his football is not working. Jose is done as a manager. Should just retire or coach a smaller side. He's a short term success manager anyway....
cuubdi
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Oooh draw again
Lordhaybee
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any player can concede a free kick. why try ridicule him with that? he had a good game and that's all
zewdeikmz
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why is that when a substitution been made, the story would then be pointed on the relationship of mourinho and the player and not for the good of the team???? Don't ever take use mourinho for commercial gain!!!!!
Botcdorsyz
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really this is time to go home jose
maeacikt
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please can someone sack that old fool for me.. am tired of Mohrino...
Yeah u are right, Les that fackin fool go away from manu.
Zenanted
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Rashford needs to be loaned oit
manchrstre
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Yussufnadara
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Another draw [Cry][Cry][Cry]